Sexual Mastery

Life as a man has changed dramatically since the modern age revolutionized technology, consequently adding one too many comforts to a man’s life. One of those detrimental comforts is sexual gratification one click away, at any time.

Pornography and masturbation have had a dampening effect on young men who would otherwise be full of energy, ready to conquer their ambitions.

Before porn, men would mostly retain their seed unless they actively went out and seduced women. Masturbation wasn’t as prevalent as it is now. Nowadays, you have men rewiring their dopamine receptors, becoming mere observers. They watch people have sex, take risks, and succeed, all while continuously wasting their life force, draining them of any vitality they may have to overcome their situation. Conquer your lust. Learn to control it and then channel it into productive outlets that create the outcomes you want.

There are lots of different methods and angles to achieve this, all depending on your specific goals as a man; however, sexual mastery is a must.

Discipline

Without discipline, you will never amount to anything significant in your life. Sounds harsh, but it’s true. Motivation is temporary, fixation is temporary; to truly succeed in any direction you wish, you must be able to consistently take actions for years on end. Here are several ways you can improve your discipline:

Many men spend hours of their day zombified, watching useless videos for entertainment or spending hours watching TV. The internet has made it extremely easy to be lazy. Fight this by making an hourly schedule for the days ahead of you. You should know exactly what you have to get done and when it has to get done each day. Create a sense of urgency by adding time restrictions.

Another helpful tactic when it comes to building discipline is to create rituals around your work. Systems and habits that get you in the zone for spurts of productivity. You do this regardless, with things you enjoy in your life; human beings are habitual creatures. Think of anything you enjoy indulging in, all the small habits you partake in before and during to make the experience better. Find ways to enjoy getting in the zone and finishing what needs to get done. Tweak this to your personal likings and your productivity will skyrocket.

Strategy/Leverage

This one is important, keep reading. When you’re trying to achieve goals in your life, your business, your social life, you can’t simply wish for them to come to fruition. Hoping you subconsciously make the right moves that trigger what you want. That’s how nothing gets done. You have to strategize, plan what you’re going to do methodically. Don’t skimp out on any details, be extremely meticulous, put thought into it. Plan what you’re going to do, when you’re going to do it and how you’re going to do it. Once you’ve done that, begin thinking about how your plan could go wrong, what could happen that would disrupt your perfectly laid out vision. Many things should arise. Create backup plans in case these things do happen, in all likelihood at least one or two of them will. This is how you create inevitable systems of success, nothing is capable of truly disrupting your aims because you’ve thought of all the possible negative outcomes. Not only that, you now have leverage over these situations, they can’t catch you by surprise.

The reason why this is so effective is that most people don’t have the discipline or, to put it bluntly, the mental capacity to think on things this deeply and for long periods of time. This gives you immense advantages in any goal or competitive circle you might be in.

Social Skills/Communication

This last one gets neglected quite a bit. Socializing seems like a waste of time at first, but long-term, it proves to be valuable. There will be moments when you need a certain expertise or an opinion from someone knowledgeable in a certain field. Maybe you even enjoy letting loose every once in a while.

Of course, within reason and with the correct group of people, who align you with your current goals and aspirations. Ultimately, human beings are social creatures, men are not exempt from this. Not only will it drive you insane if you isolate yourself, but you’ll also miss out on countless connections that could help you tremendously in the future.

Being a lone wolf is glamorized, but in reality, it’s not an effective strategy for becoming successful. On top of all this, socializing is an opportunity to develop and sharpen your communication skills, your game, and your ability to connect and build rapport with those around you. Invaluable skills that are integral parts of being a masculine man.

Mix the ability to communicate and connect with countless people with a profitable skill set and you’ll be unstoppable. Your sex life will thank you, your finances will thank you, and most of all, you’ll be well-rounded with numerous allies at your disposal.