Why Do Men Watch Porn

We will begin by discussing why men watch porn in the first place. Most men who watch porn do so because they lack sexual abundance in their lives so they settle for pixels on a screen to derive pleasure from. Since these men have no women around to have sex with or please them when they desire it they feel they have no other choice but to succumb to their urges through consuming videos of other men having sex with women they would choose to sleep with if given the chance. I could end this article right here. That’s already a terrible reason to do something.

Why It’s Detrimental To Men

Continuing on, this is detrimental to men because it allows them to settle and never improve their ability to attract high quality women into their lives and derive personal power from being able to create strong relationship dynamics that they are in control of. We can agree it is much easier to watch porn before bed than it is to actively be meeting new women, maintaining different kinds of relationships with various women and spending money going out, bringing girls home and escalating to get what you want. Most men choose the easy route and end up miserable. Secondly, porn not only removes your innate desire to have sex with real women it also trains your mind to become a spectator in your life. You begin to enjoy the easy process of deriving pleasure from watching other men have sex with women and treat women the way you wish you could. You essentially become a cuckold. And it bleeds into every other aspect of your life as a man. When you see an attractive woman in public you won’t approach her and attempt to seduce her and bring her home with you. You will go home, find a video of a woman who looks similar and please yourself to another man fucking her. It’s sad and counterproductive. No man wants to live this way.

Use Your Energy Instead Of Depleting it

Every man wants to be able to speak to any woman and go after what they want in life without hesitation. Porn makes this impossible by turning you into a spectator in every way possible. It also makes it extremely difficult to talk to women you find attractive in general. It creates anxiety and sexual anticipation in the minds of men, in mundane situations. Situations where confidence is so easy to display if a mans mind isn’t constantly being bombarded with fictional, scripted, sexual videos. You become anxious and constantly depleted of energy. Energy that instead of being wasted being shot in a tissue, could be helping you achieve your goals and pursuits. Energy that is meant to motivate you to go out and meet beautiful women and get them in bed with you. Porn is essentially a succubus, draining men of their vitality and sexual confidence. Satiate your biological urge to procreate with degrading videos and you’ll end up a lifeless man who doesn’t respect himself enough to look attractive women in the eyes. Porn is an addiction like anything else. It hijacks your dopamine receptors and bombards you with pleasure that simulates a biological desire which facilitates survival. Don’t underestimate the effect that has on your psyche and overall outlook. Men who control their sexual urges and channel them to get the things they truly desire in life will always surpass cowards who sacrifice self respect for pleasure. Take control of your energy and where you choose to spend it, don’t be weak, regain mental fortitude.